The rules for dating a married man
Before I go further, I know some people are eager to wonder why this post is trying to help single ladies adapt to their philandering married boyfriends.I don’t know why I’m helping them, you’re going to have to find that out on your own.In case you didn’t get the memo, a sin is a sin, doesn’t matter what yours is. Anyway, George Carlin once said, if you’re looking for a place to go between heaven and hell. In case you’re out and you see him greeting another lady warmly, go and take your seat, don’t stand there giving him the eye, remember, you’re a distraction.Go to hell, that’s where all your friends will be, and isn’t life more interesting with friends. During my short stay and relations with married men who have girlfriends, I realize most of their issues with them are the same regardless of how they look, most of them hovering around immaturity and not accepting their roles with their chest. You’re not his wife, don’t act like her He married his wife not you, forget the sweet words he keeps telling you, he might promise to leave her and marry you, chances are he’ll really do it and maybe not. Learn to stay in your lane, don’t nag him, and learn to play your distraction role else you’ll be out before you know it, and you know all the benefits you get from it are highly needed by you because of your wide mouth. ALSO READ: Moreover, the other lady might just be a friend or your predecessor. That might the lady you deposed, so be nice, courteous and grand. Mind your calls It is always best to know when and how to call if you have to call at all, else just send him a message, don’t start calling him like he’s your boyfriend, that will get you blocked and discarded easily.a.k.a He'll NEVER stay that into you There are no positive reasons for dating a married man.Even the good reasons don't stand the test of time and turn out to be bad ideas in good ideas' clothing.”, and perceives this as being put first (the one thing that women want to feel in a relationship).
This means that he's likely to resort to some devious behavior with you if the two of you encounter relationship problems. Walking together freely and radiantly through the world can fill you with the glow of being with someone who is proud to be with you. As appreciative as he sounds, many women who are involved with married men come to resent his having the best of both worlds, when she has the least. Can you love someone who is so disrespectful of his wife? At some level, he's going to have trouble respecting you for settling for such a flawed relationship. Despite his reassuring you how much you mean to him, his not ending his relationship with his wife in an above-board and respectful way -- and not beginning a legitimate relationship with you -- are actions that speak louder than words. Human nature finds it easier to blame than to accept shame. Ever notice how quickly the years go as you get older?ALSO READ: I know sleeping with a married man is a sin, and trust Nigerians to be judgmental about this kind of thing.Like their own sin of lying and stealing trumps another person sleeping with a married man. You’re stealing something and you’re unhappy that someone else is stealing it too. If you cannot stop yourself from being jealous, hide it.A recent dinner with a past acquaintance has brought me to a place where I now know a conversation on why-I-even-dressed-up-for-a-dinner-with-a-man-I-had-no-idea-was-married-until-we-were-well-into-dessert is very much needed.I am a 40-something single woman interested in dating single, heterosexual men yet lately I seem to meet more than the usual of those who are Dating While Married (DWM).